I have given up...

Well, I tried it for a month and I'm not sure if I'm the problem or if the single (sometimes) guys in Albuquerque are.  Granted, my standards are high, but I don't think they're that high.  A major problem on my part seems to be not wanting to date someone with kids.  Amazing how many of these guys (90%) either have kids or are feeling middle age approaching and wanting to create a mini-me asap.  I think if men had to actually be pregnant and give birth to those mini-me's and juggle work and taking care of the home and children, they would not be so eager to procreate.  Bitter?  Not really, just finally accepting that I don't understand.